Ok, He works full time and brings home good money.
BUT THAT IS ALL!
For years and years I've been begging for some social planning, day trip planning, any bloody planning but everything's falls to me, I do everything with the 4 kids plus work and I'm so so tired of it.
Any public holiday, celebration, etc nothing is ever his suggestion, his idea, his doing - his excuse is " I don't know where to look" He has an expensive smart phone with Google!!!! He works with other Fathers, Husbands, he can read, write, drive so it's not good enough.
My marriage is so cold and lonely, I'm just existing, it's like residing with an unwanted flat mate, he enjoys the kids and truly loves them but as a family man he needs to do more.
No sex, no comfort, no emotion, no romance .
I'm an attractive lady with a beautiful heart and I bloody deserve more. I'm not short of attention from outsiders but I'm married and I will not go there but I'm so fed up now it hurts.
I go through this with him so often, he appears to listen but nothing ever changes, he may suggested a trip to the park once. ( Wonderful)
I'm sat upstairs listing to the fireworks, feeling upset that my children had nothing planned for them over the weekend by him whilst I was at work.
Their birthdays, Christmas, school events he inputs nothing. I've been married 15 years and he has never surprised me with anything :(
Yes, he is loyal, good morals, and all round decent but it's just not enough as a lover or family man.
BTW : Sex is about 3-4 times a year...always initiated by me!
Sorry for the rant but I feel somewhat better.
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Sick of him...lazy arse husband
1981Thisman · 05/11/2017 18:18
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