Okay, the twins are almost 14 months now. DH works from home regular hours M-F. I have a very part time job 15 hours a month, many of which I can take them with me - there are probably 8 hours a month when I leave them at home with dad. That's my only "break"- neither myself or my husband have been out since they were born, together or separately, other than for work or appointments.
It has been this way as it's just the two of us and we have just been getting by, but now I'm really starting to struggle. I need some time occasionally to properly rest or have some mental space. I know he does too.
I feel like saying that I need one day a week "off" during the day so that I'm not the primary caregiver 24/7, albeit with his involvement on weekends. However, if I do that it's only fair that he also gets a day off, and then that's the weekend gone with no time as a family.
How do others manage this balance? It's difficult as we don't have friends or family round here (we had a big social circle when we moved back to the area but everyone has gradually moved away for work etc). I've made some good twin mum friends and they're proposing a night out for some food and to watch a film. The boys are down by 6:30pm and don't ehenr
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How do you manage "days off"?
TammyswansonTwo · 05/11/2017 12:28
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