Me and Dp have 2 young children (1 and 3). Dp is amazing, caring, hands on etc. But recently I've been feeling so annoyed with everything he does. I feel so tightly wound and irritable all the time. We both work really hard and have little time for each other, but quite frankly at the moment I don't feel like spending any time with him anyway. Once I've done my work and looked after the children etc I just want to zone out on my own.
It's so bad. We haven't had sex in ages. Both children were hard to conceive (the first was via IVF). The most recent occasion we had sex (almost the first time since having my second baby), I became pregnant with twins. This was obviously a complete shock after our fertility issues and after much discussion and heartbreak we decided to terminate.
I don't want to have sex, I don't want to cuddle. I'm not depressed. But I'm sitting her nearly in tears because I'm worried about what this means to our relationship and how we can put it right. We have barely any time to spend together without the children because one or other of us will be working.
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Screamer1 · 04/11/2017 21:53
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