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I paid £30 to be cheated on basically.

(146 Posts)
Slaylormoon Fri 03-Nov-17 15:09:40

My on/off (currently apparently on) boyfriend of 3 years casually mentioned going to (city) this weekend to see his mates, and asked could I lend him the train fare so I did.

Only he's actually in a different town meeting up with his ex.

I feel like less than dust.

TheNaze73 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:10:47

That’s awful. How do you know for certain? Some ex’s can be full of shit

NotSuchASmugMarriedNow1 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:11:44

You paid £30 and now you know your boyfriend is a cheating freeloader - that might possibly be the best £30 you've ever spent!!!

Give him his fucking marching orders and tell him to keep the £30.

What. A. Cock.

Slaylormoon Fri 03-Nov-17 15:12:27

He has his computer set up at the main tv in his apartment (where I'm currently staying) and he left Facebook logged in. A message popped up from her while I was watching YouTube, asking if he was at the station yet, and I saw him send her a reply.

Sorry for drip feed. I feel numb.

Blackcatonthesofa Fri 03-Nov-17 15:13:31

At least you found out what a knob he is. 30 isn't that much money. Next month treat yourself something for 30 pounds. At least you will have some fun out of it instead of giving ot to a twat.

BenLui Fri 03-Nov-17 15:14:19

Slay I’m so sorry.

You aren’t less, he is.

What’s your situation, do you live together? Have kids?

Slaylormoon Fri 03-Nov-17 15:15:37

I suppose it's not really that much money. I sent her a message from his account saying

It's Stbx's girlfriend, could you tell him to answer his phone please.

She read the message but he's since turned his phone off.

Slaylormoon Fri 03-Nov-17 15:16:39

@Benlui I moved in from my student accommodation literally a week ago. I'm abroad from all my family.

YouCantArgueWithStupid Fri 03-Nov-17 15:16:51

Sorry OP. He sounds like a bell end flowers

MyfatheristheKing Fri 03-Nov-17 15:17:59

Wow. He’s some catch!

Are you staying there permanently? Do you have somewhere else to go?

ravenmum Fri 03-Nov-17 15:19:47

Shame you didn't lend him enough money to get himself a brain cell or two. Must feel awful but you are clearly extremely well rid. Any reason to have further contact with him?

BenLui Fri 03-Nov-17 15:19:50

Can you go back to your previous accommodation?

luckkkkkky7 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:20:37

Aw luv so sorry what a bell end cock twat!

LurkingHusband Fri 03-Nov-17 15:20:39

It's Stbx's girlfriend, could you tell him to answer his phone please.

That made me smile ...

flowers OP

Slaylormoon Fri 03-Nov-17 15:20:41

Not entirely sure where I can go, I'm not expecting he will come back from hers tonight now but I'm frantically trying to scrape some money together for a hotel or something. Which is also why I'm so upset I basically funded his sordid meet up, because money is really tight for me and i don't know what to do.

Slaylormoon Fri 03-Nov-17 15:23:31

Sorry missed the question, no kids.

luckkkkkky7 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:23:42

Have you got any friends ?

Slaylormoon Fri 03-Nov-17 15:24:49

@luckkkkkky7 Not around here, I'm in NI but from England.

Catinthecorner Fri 03-Nov-17 15:25:54

Are you still logged into his Facebook? I’d be having a bit of fun with that if you are.

Of course my ex was stupid enough to use my laptop to check his dating website profile. So I helped honest him up a little.

luckkkkkky7 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:26:23

I can't believe he took your money he's a scumbag

luckkkkkky7 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:27:16

Haha I agree with last comment go on he profile and embarrass him you should also of told her he is using your money to take her out !

user1480334601 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:27:33

You should send her another message: "actually ignore that last message. Can you tell him we're done. Enjoy his cheating ass he's all yours now smile"

So sorry op. What an idiot and the cheek to ask you for money for it!! Unbelievable

luckkkkkky7 Fri 03-Nov-17 15:28:45

What's in his flat you can sell ? 😆

BenLui Fri 03-Nov-17 15:29:07

Can your university help you?
Or your family?

Notreallyarsed Fri 03-Nov-17 15:30:02

Oh OP he’s a shit, a complete shit. Could your family lend you the ferry/plane fare to get home?

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