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Horrible messages off ex

(7 Posts)
dazedandconfuse Thu 02-Nov-17 22:21:56

Warning TMI. Just received some horrid messages off my ex 😖 I'm currently going no contact, am 17 weeks pregnant (he wants nothing to do with the child) thought I had him blocked on everything but apparently not.

Just need somewhere to vent.

He sent me a load of messages saying how many girls he'd had sex with (6 apparently) had a "two night stand" whatever that is. Told me I'm the ugliest girl he's ever been with, that he hates me, hates our unborn child and a load of other stuff. I've not replied. Spent the night sobbing uncontrollably. He's really really hurt me. Why are men such fucking arse holes? He knows I love him and he treats me like this. Why isn't there a spell to fall out of love with someone? What the fuck am I thinking?

bluebell34567 Thu 02-Nov-17 22:24:59

he is drunk.

bluebell34567 Thu 02-Nov-17 22:25:58

don't take any of these messages seriously. he is trying to get your attention and hurt you. good job he is ex.

Reflexella Thu 02-Nov-17 22:29:04

If he was that happy and moved on in his life, he wouldn’t be texting you.

Don’t engage, block again and see him for what he is - an immature turd having a tantrum.

Yea sure he shagged 100 busty blonds - more like cried into his kebab

Justbookedasummmerholiday Thu 02-Nov-17 22:31:19

Well I hope you won't be putting him on the bc then.
You have had a lucky escape - your dc doesn't need a df like him.

Biddylee Thu 02-Nov-17 22:31:21

Can you block him? Please do. This kind of abuse is horrible. People like this have usually manipulated you so that you hold them in their heart.

I had a guy who phoned me after dumping me because he wanted to talk and then would call me the c-word if I didn't answer the call. Only person blocked from my facebook.

PeasAndHarmony Thu 02-Nov-17 22:37:51

Men are not horrible.

This man is, however.

You and your child deserve so much better. Block him and ignore.

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