I’m finished. I’m emotionally drained and I’m done, I can’t take it anymore.
He’s not violent at all but he really knows how to get inside my head and manipulate me and put me down and upset me, if I don’t End it I will be left with no confidence and my kids deserve better.
But practically what can I do? I have no friends, no family that would take me in. We own the house together, I can’t afford it alone and he won’t leave anyway.
I work and my daughters nursery is 1.5 hrs from where I work (in the town that he works, we live in the middle of both towns that we work in but I could never afford to live here) I don’t earn enough to buy or rent alone but won’t qualify for benefits.
Logistically I can’t take her to nursery but I can’t just leave her with him and go. I don’t want her to deal with changing schools and having us split up at the same time so can’t move her. How do I even find somewhere to live? The council won’t help as I’m a ‘joint owner’ I have no deposit to private rent, my wages won’t cover rent near here.
The equity in the house is tiny so I won’t get money from that. We’re not married. I’m also 30 weeks pregnant with dc2.
What the hell do I do? I’m trapped aren’t I, I’m trying to think straight but I’m literally trapped in this house with him forever.
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Escapingmyshitlife123 · 02/11/2017 21:17
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