Hi, I'm just needing peoples opinions about my situation please, Ive been single for a couple of years and thought i would give internet dating a try since i have no social life whatsoever! Anyway, after a couple of dates with no success, I have met someone who I have been chatting to for about 3 months, because of his job,, he works shifts, and my children, we have never actually met, we did arrange to meet, but the morning of said meeting, he messaged at 8am to say he had been sick during the night{?) so he had to cancel, I gave him the benefit of the doubt {stupidly maybe) and we carried on messaging as normal, then, last weekend, he literally went silent, his whatsapp had been deactivated, and so, me being me, I deleted him off my facebook and silently fumed all weekend not knowing why he had disappeared, eventually, sunday pm, his whatsapp suddenly popped up again, and he sent me a message to say he had been on the piss all weekend with his brother...
I told him to get lost etc, but he was insistant he isnt messing me around - theres nothing on his facebook to show hes married or has anything to hide, but something is not sitting right with me,
He is now wanting to meet up next week but im worried he will come up with another excuse, I really like this guy, he has a decent job, he seems real to me, but we only really ever make small talk, he vaguely knows my history, and I know bits of his, but he keeps telling me, certain converstations are better done face to face... am I being stupid trusting him? why, if he was on the piss all weekend with his brother did he diactivate his whatsapp.. he says its to save battery power.. thoughts please.. many thanks x
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Sarahc8 · 01/11/2017 12:22
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