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Cutting off contact with ex

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Jane1457 Wed 01-Nov-17 09:41:16

Hello, I have a three month old baby with my recently ex partner. We had been together for three years and are both early twenties. We have always had our ups and downs a few big fights but always quickly got back together. However I am running out of patience for his constant moods and laziness since LO has been born. He was a dick throughout the pregnant - going out all the time and questioning our relationship etc. Since LO he has been doing the same. At the start he was brilliant very helpful and very hands on but the last couple months he Barely sees LO. We don’t live together but he will now only pop round when it suits him and when he has nothing better to do. This leaves me to do everything virtually by myself. He is so selfish and puts basically everything else before coming to see her child and our relationship. I have now found out he has also being lying to me and messaging other women behind my back. So basically I want out as he is a dick of a father and a boyfriend. There is no trust left for him so I don’t know what to do about contact with LO.

I don’t want to have to communicate with him as all he will do is give excuses or try and manipulate me (make me feel bad etc). However LO is so small and I’m breastfeeding and also due to severe lack of trust I can’t just hand LO over to him for a few hours. What would be reasonable to suggest? Is the times/ days of contact up to me to decide what suits us?

Thanks for any suggestions !

hellsbellsmelons Wed 01-Nov-17 10:12:38

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