I'm new on here and need some perspective as I think I'm too deep in to the situation to see clearly.
DH and I are in a very volatile place right now that I think could end our 7 year marriage any moment.
We've been together 8 years, whirlwind beginning and married within 18months. Then 2DC aged 3 and 5.
Upon reflection I suppose we were only sort of compatible in the beginning, on top of that I've matured and want more from life e.g stability for our children etc. He is a complete live for the moment loose cannon that I can't trust or garuantee what he's up to in any sense including money, we are so different and he is very secretive in many ways. I really know nothing about him anymore as he keeps so many secrets , debts, purchases, plans etc. some might argue I always knew he was like this and that may be true but he's got worse.
However his side of it is that (and to quote him) 'I completely kill the fun in everything he does' hence why he doesn't tell me for fear of the dissappointment. I honestly can't see that I do this at all. what I do try to do is build a positive future for our family and make adult decisions to support our security. It's just not working :-(
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Husband is a loose cannon, but is it me or him? HELP!
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Brightyoungstar · 28/10/2017 14:09
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