So H got drunk as usual last night and called me some names in front of dd which I am not happy about. It’s his birthday today and I’ve booked a table elsewhere. AIBU to cancel this as he will get drunk again and disrespect me again in front of my daughter when I am paying??
@BluePheasant ...he told me to take dd out for treat or trick next week and I said no as am happy taking her dancing,swimming etc but not that and I suggested he takes her instead if he wants as its not my thing to be knocking on people’s doorsteps. Then he called me a lazy cunt. I’ve ripped off his birthday card as it says everything he’s not. DD is excited about the meal that’s why I posted here for help otherwise I’ve considered LTB after my degree.
I’d do the lunch for the sake of the kids making it very clear to him that’s why you’re doing it. I’d have a lovely lunch, push the boat out then later on today tell him to get the fuck out of the house as you deserve more than this! X