I was out last night with friends. A close male friend that I have a very close and at times emotionally intense friendship with was also out in the same area, but separately.
We have always kept quite strong boundaries to stop things getting odd, largely because some time ago we spent a lot of time together and I thought that we were heading in a certain direction and it turned out (after I raised it) that we weren't. I was upset at the time but all was well that ended well, and we then both started seeing other people, although his relationship ended a month or so back. I'm still with my DP.
But as the night went on I received a number of messages from him asking - was I drunk? Where was I? Which bar? He then said where he was, and asked again where I was.
I didn't reply to the last one as wasn't sure where it was all going. Now it's the next day though I wonder if he didn't want to meet up at all and I just read too much into it? What do you think?
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Did I read too much into this?
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WhiteDog · 28/10/2017 08:17
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