I've been ill for a few weeks; DH has taken on most of the household tasks in addition to working full time etc.
I am pleased that he's cooking, cleaning (in a fashion) and food shopping, but the house is in complete disarray along with normal routines. I feel stressed to the max.
There is food going off in the fridge (and it smells) vegetables mouldering in the cupboard, stained, filthy dish cloths and towels in the kitchen, dirty clothes in toy boxes etc etc. Im supposed to be resting... bit how?! DH doesn't stop and I feel sorry for him but basic tidying and cleanliness has gone down the pan and I'm so stressed. Also, childcare arrangements/ meal planning is all very up in the air and last minute, it makes me feel ill thinking about it.
so yes, DH is doing everything... but is it such a lot to ask for him to actually put a little thought into it and to take some assertive control?
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Is basic organisation such a lot to ask?
moonamay · 27/10/2017 21:07
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