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Mad crush on a guy at work!

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skyblue Fri 27-Oct-17 20:33:49

Aaarrgggh I need some input! I have a mad crush on a guy at work and am so confused as it's come right out of the blue! I feel like a giddy teenager, it's so out of character for me as I'm usually pretty chilled out. He's not even that attractive, but we have crazy chemistry, I just get as stupid and giddy when he's around.

I've been married for 2 years and we have two kids together. I love my husband, although our relationship can be complicated as he can be controlling. I would NEVER cheat, so I know there's no danger of it ever progressing to anything more than a crush..... but I feel so giddy about this guy I'm embarrassed for myself!

Has anyone else had something like this? Does it mean something is missing in my marriage, or is it just harmless daydreaming and fantasy?!!! Is it ok or normal to crush on someone other than your husband?!!

AutumnRose1988 Fri 27-Oct-17 20:50:17

Crushes are normal but a little taken aback by the fact you've only been married 2 years and you say he's controlling sometimes...perhaps this flirtation is a form of escapism from that?

SpinnerDryer Fri 27-Oct-17 20:52:23

You will look at him in a few months and think - Ewwwww confused

Let it go.

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