Hi all,
Not sure why I'm writing this but just needed somewhere to vent.
My ex left me almost 2 years ago after being together 14 years. We have 2 kids together who he's choosen to have no contact with. I'm in a new relationship with a man who is lovely, patient and very understanding of what I've been through.
Saying that I'm still struggling with feeling like a crap person mainly due to the way I was treated by my ex, when he left (left me for a younger women!), he said a lot of mean and hurtful things, told me he resented me, looking at me made him feel sick and even threatened to hit me if I didn't let him leave, all of which he said infront of my daughter (she has been seeing a counsellor to deal with this). Looking back our relationship hadn't been good for a while and I'm sure he cheated multiple times and he used to put me down a lot, towards the end he'd come in from work and ignore me but expect me to have dinner ready and to deal with the kids, I know I'm better off without him but I wish he hadn't left me feeling like an insecure mess.
Everyday I wake up feeling like a crap person and that I don't deserve any happiness in my life.
Will these feelings ever go away?
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Moving on from hurtful comments by ex
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Anxiousmess1 · 26/10/2017 15:39
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