Hi all,
Long time user but defo want to ask this anonymously...
I came off the pill a few months ago after being on over ten years. It’s the only cause of this I can think of.
I’m in a fantastic relationship where the sexual side of things has gone off the boil in the usual way after 2yrs.
My problem is that I am looking at and fantasising about men I know like a starving harpy I am literally hornier than I have ever felt and it is keeping me awake at night imagining things. At the same time I feel really horrible and guilty about these thoughts when I love my DP to bits.
I know this might seem like a ridiculous “problem” but I don’t know if it’s normal or what I can do. I can’t tell him why I’m lying awake fidgeting for hours and if this was a man posting he’d get slated for laying any expectations of more sex on his partner.
I feel really stressed about coming into contact with any of these blokes I know as I’m having really uncontrollable thoughts about them!
Sorry if this is in the wrong forum.
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Off the pill and gone feral
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Ruddyhormones99 · 25/10/2017 14:54
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