I don’t really think anyone will be able to do much about what happened, I just think it will feel better to speak and acknowledge what happened so I can process it.
My H and I separated about 6 months ago, during my pregnancy. I found out he had slept with someone and been chatting with her for a long time.
We have been working through things, and he recently moved in with me again. We have been sharing a room again very recently, but haven’t been having sex.
He went out for drinks last night, and was obviously very drunk when he got home at around 2/3am. I had been asleep for a while and woke up when he penetrated me in my sleep.
I woke up pretty immediately, because it hurt. He had just sort of slammed in, and has caused a tear. He stopped as soon as I woke up and asked him what he was doing. He rolled off me and just went to sleep.
He doesn’t remember anything today, but says he’s sorry if he did anything inappropriate.
I don’t know why, but I just feel very uneasy about what happened. A bit shocked and not sure where this leaves us. He says he doesn’t remember it, it was obviously a drunken instinct, but I don’t know what I’m supposed to do, if anything, about it.
I just sort of wanted to say out loud what had happened as I found a lot of support here when I first found out about his cheating.
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I think I just need to say it out loud.
FeelingWelrd · 22/10/2017 15:48
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