So we go on three weeks holiday. DP is a total arse. Nothing pleased him, nothing. I couldn't get him to get up off his backside to go for a walk, visit anything, nothing. He slept most of the afternoons. So I went off myself.
Then I realised that he had no meds with him, ADs and blood pressure tabs. When I asked him he said he thought he didn't need them as the sunshine would sort out his mood and he forgot to get his BP pills before coming away. WTAF!
Anyway got it sorted and filled the script locally.
But honestly it was a total nightmare. Nothing was right. I was treated very badly IMO, no violence or anything but it doesn't have to be physical either!
Got so bad that I just left him to it and went off on my own.
Major strop in the airport on the return too, was very embarrassing for me.
Anyway, when we got back I said we should separate for a while as "you are not well and will do nothing to help yourself". So we are apart right now. I feel fine. Of course he feels he did nothing wrong AT ALL!
But, got a wedding coming up. I don't know what to do. I phoned him this evening about something else that he needs to know about and while he said he is fine, he was very distant and sounded a bit out of it, although I know he doesn't partake of anything other than a pint now and then. Honestly I know this.
Sorry I am a bit all over the place, missing him like crazy but until he gets his shit together I am out. Sorry for rambling, just needed to say it out loud to myself. Am so sad.
I am not concerned if people read and run. It's just another honest post. I don't know what I am asking either. I am a bit all over the shop.
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