I posted about a situation on here before, asking if I was raped.
After I gave birth to my ds, my oh (now ex) tried to initiate sex around two weeks pp. I said no repeatedly and tried to push him away. The baby was on the bed next to me. He carried on and I froze. I was sobbing as he had (rough) sex with me.
I have been finding this very difficult to come to terms with recently. I was having a really down day and confided this in my mother. I was practically in tears when I told her.
Her response has really upset me and has me doubting that I was raped and that I'm just being silly. She started to say that she doesn't know why men are like this pp... and that most women have experienced this post birth. That's all I let her say, I put the phone down. I couldn't hear anymore of what she was going to say.
I feel even more confused and upset after this conversation. I expected her to be outraged and supportive... I'm really doubting myself.
I told her I said no, I told her I was torn and bleeding...
I feel so let down.
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rosareine · 19/10/2017 21:47
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