Hi all,
I've posted a few times about my relationship. There is no going back now. I am really confused about what I should/shouldn't do when I am planning to leave.These are just thoughts in my head and not sure whether these are things I should be doing
*Pay off my credit card
*Stash some money (not sure if I should give it to my mother, my OH has a very well paid job with loads of bonuses due in the next year so he will be far better off financially than me)
- Sort out some medical issues (OH has a very generous health and dental package - I presume they won't be available to me when we separate)
- Get counselling for myself (so I have the energy and strength to leave)
- Learn how to drive and get a full licence (am doing that since Sept)
- Get a full time job. I am worried about the impact this will have on the kids if I get a full-time job and we separate. But I don't really have much of a choice do I?
- Get some bits and pieces fixed around the house (OH will either refuse to leave or we'll have to sell the house so I guess I want to try and do it up so we can get as much equity as possible).
Any ideas or suggestions gratefully received.