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Cheap private investigators

(33 Posts)
user1497643032 Mon 16-Oct-17 19:55:06

Pls can anyone recommend a good private detective/investigator pls? I need to catch my cheating fiance.

INeedToEat Mon 16-Oct-17 20:21:14

Do you really need to go that far OP? If you already know he is cheating why do you need further proof ?

I'm really sorry you are going through this, I know what it feels like.


INeedToEat Mon 16-Oct-17 20:22:43

Also you might want to get this thread moved into 'relationships' where there is more traffic/support from members.

CockacidalManiac Mon 16-Oct-17 20:31:43

Why do you need to catch him? He’s your fiancée; just call off the wedding.

Desmondo2016 Mon 16-Oct-17 20:33:54

You don't need proof. Just dump him then he's your cheating ex finance and you've still got your money and your self respect.

Josuk Mon 16-Oct-17 20:36:01

OP - you are not married with several kids, yet.
No one can force you to marry him if you don’t trust him.

Leave. This is no way to start a life together.

user1497643032 Mon 16-Oct-17 20:41:21

Thanks ladies. I will move this post to the relationship Sec. yes, you are right, is just a waste of time and money to get a private investigator. We got engaged 6 years ago (but together 13+ years) but could not marry for financial reasons etc but then the idea of marriage or/and marrying him was not something I fancied really because he drives me cucubananas as time went By & he is not just serious about anything at all + he is not ambitious at all etc I can go on & ont till next year.

Josuk Mon 16-Oct-17 21:05:06

So - OP - why are you still with him?

butterfly56 Mon 16-Oct-17 21:09:33

Don't waste money on a private detective just keep your money and get rid of the useless deserve a lot better than him! flowers

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 Mon 16-Oct-17 21:47:31

What do you think hiring a P.I. Will solve?

Are there any signs or in a way or you hoping you catch him out so you can walk away "guilt free" and have a reason to give to outsiders as why the relationship ended.

YouMeanNothing Mon 16-Oct-17 21:50:18

Doubt there's any cheap ones that are any good and like others have said you don't need one anyway

user1497643032 Mon 16-Oct-17 22:55:21

We ve now gone our separate ways, the BASTARD moved out of my house & my son finding it a bit hard & I m standing strong for myself & kids but I am still fragile and fighting the urge not to call d bitch he went to spend d night with 2weeks ago. To be honest, I wish them both nothing good at all especially my ex (I hope he crashes his car & suffer significant life changing injuries & suffer - don't say I am too harsh pls because u have no idea what I ve done for that BASTARD so pls don't even go there) + my son is hurting and it is painful to see that.

Myheartbelongsto Mon 16-Oct-17 23:41:52

Please don't wish nasty car accidents on people.

user1497643032 Tue 17-Oct-17 05:59:06

i don't & I have never wished nasty accident on anyone at all but no one is got any idea of what this guy put me through. The emotional, psychological trauma, stress & torture. Until u know how it feels to walk in the shoes I have walked in with this guy for 13years pls don't see me as bitter or nasty or judge me.

Scrumptiousbears Tue 17-Oct-17 06:06:07

Did not pick the OP. It’s clear she is hurting and venting.

parklives Tue 17-Oct-17 06:14:36

All the best op, focus on your future with your ds and free of the arsehole who obviously made your life difficult.
Enjoy being free!

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 Tue 17-Oct-17 08:05:34

That went from 0-60 really quick.
How did it go from you thinking of hiring a P.I. to finding out in the space of nearly 3 hours?


springydaffs Tue 17-Oct-17 09:21:38

It just did KungFu hmm

Take care op flowers

springydaffs Tue 17-Oct-17 09:21:56

It just did KungFu hmm

Take care op flowers

KungFuPandaWorksOut16 Tue 17-Oct-17 09:34:03

springy my bad. Didn't realise we weren't allowed to ask any questions.
Thankyou for being the thread monitor.

SparklyMagpie Tue 17-Oct-17 11:22:57

She only asked a question springydaffs Jesus christ confused

Coconutspongexo Tue 17-Oct-17 11:31:15


springydaffs Tue 17-Oct-17 11:34:14

And I replied. Freedom of thread movement and all.

Coconutspongexo Tue 17-Oct-17 11:36:57

Kung wasn't asking you though

TheStoic Tue 17-Oct-17 11:53:33

Wouldn’t it help if you said whereabouts you are?

No point recommending a PI if they’re at the opposite end of the country.

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