I've been with my DP about a year, he is still married to first wife. Making all the right noise about wanting to get divorced. Tells me he loves me, wants to be with me forever and have kids with me. Asked me to marry him about a month ago now, but still no ring. That's another issue.
My issue is that whenever I ask him how the divorce is going, it's the same story or update as the last time I asked. He doesn't seem to be able to do anything without pushing.
He says he needs to see a solicitor to discuss grounds, when it's pretty self explanatory, she was controlling and violent.
He had the perfect opportunity a few months ago to divorce her on domestic violence charges, when she hit him yet again. However he buried it, "for the sake of the kids" apparently .
Am I right to be suspicious that there is a reason he isn't actually doing anything about it?
He's talking the talk, but not walking the walking. Aibu, will he have to wait the full two years before divorcing her? Or can it be done earlier?
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Reluctance to divorce.
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LittleBooInABox · 16/10/2017 13:24
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