ll try to keep this short n sweet...Broke up with my ex of two years back in June, 3 weeks before my birthday. She sent a text wishing me HB.
Five months later, she is coming up to a BIG birthday and I'm in a quandry. Should I or shalln't I ?
We've seen each other/spoken once in that time and discussed what went wrong. The break up was simply down to 'our compatibility' according to her. There were no third parties involved and we both trusted one another. She said she'd like to be friends in the future and we both accepted that as being good, yet she has made absolutely no effort to contact me, not even a simple hello. I've not even had an invite to the party she is throwing. There was no animosity between us during our long chat, but she was quite distant and cold at times, though we did hug each other when saying goodbye. It was me that initiated the previous contact to get some understanding on what went wrong. She has emotionally moved on and is dating, whereas I still miss/love her and haven't.
I want to wish her HB as I would feel it cruel and unkind not to, however her silence has pretty much made it clear to me that she's just not interested in me as a friend or anything else so perhaps I should just get on my life and ignore it ?
I know I'm over analysing and for some it would be a very straight forward decision to make, but for me, it's meaning sleepless nights. help ?
just looking for a female perspective on this really.
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Birthday wishes to my Ex G/F ?
BANANABOX2 · 11/10/2017 13:56
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