I feel like my boyfriend is selfish in bed. He's a great guy out of it! :,-D A really nice, sweet, funny and dare I say it completely fucking hot guy!
But in bed its just like.....meh. He's in his 30s so should know better. He's just so boring and uninspiring, there seems to be no kind of playfulness or anything, he just kind of waits for me to lead and take things down a certain route. I have to actually ask and guide him towards doing some stuff and its like come on now. You're a grown up and we've been together a year.
Basically I want him to take control and dominate more, but you cant really ASK for that can you?! Since ot kind of misses the point...
Any experience? Our relationship is otherwise great.
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Selfish/passive in bed
Gimmeareason · 10/10/2017 19:32
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