I don't know what to do about my eldest daughter. She was such a good girl. Going to the toilet on her own. No accidents in the day time. Wearing a pull up at night. Tidying up after herself, without been asked. Playing on her own. Basically, a well behaved child. Now, she's a nightmare! Purposely wetting herself in the day time. Refusing to wear a pull up at night. Not doing as she's told. My partner and I are at our wits end. She's not his daughter, but he's been wonderful with her from the start. My partner and I have a 5 month old baby. My 4 year old is proud and happy to be the big sister. She's wonderful with her little sister. So why is she acting up all of a sudden? Last night was the last straw for my partner. I'd been up all night with our baby, and at 5am she finally went to sleep. Just as I was getting into bed, my 4 year old shouts that she's wet the bed. This resulted in my 5 month old and my partner waking up. He said he couldn't take anymore. He was done with her. He won't do anything for her anymore. He was supposed to take her to school this morning. So I had to take her to school, and I'm still up with my 5 month old. I just don't know what to do. I can't send my 4 year old to her dad's, for 2 reasons. 1. He lives in a different county, so he couldn't get her to school. 2. He doesn't discipline her. I can't ask my parents, as they live in a different county. My partners family couldn't help, as they live between 40 mins and and 1 hr away, depending on traffic. My partner hasn't said this, but I feel like I have to choose between my two daughters. I'm really stuck, and I don't know what to do. Any help? Advice?
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