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Muddledmind Mon 09-Oct-17 23:18:26

Probably already been a million threads on the topic, but having recently looked at H phone, I've found him on some messenger type app, where he talks to women all over about sexual fantasies and the like.
Now I'm lying here and I just don't know what to think. Has anyone else discovered this and what did you do?

Jayne35 Tue 10-Oct-17 08:35:14

Me personally, I would leave but only because I have experience of this kind of thing escalating. However, I get that I'm projecting somewhat and if it's the first time, marriage otherwise good.....maybe just confront him about it.

hellsbellsmelons Tue 10-Oct-17 09:48:14

I also have experience of this escalating.
And it would be a deal breaker for me anyway.
It's cheating in my eyes and if he's doing this he will want to 'live them out' with someone.
What did he say when you challenged him about it?
Do you have DC together?

user1480334601 Tue 10-Oct-17 10:33:24

This is cheating on my eyes too. I'd treat it that way

Sorry op xx

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