Please bear with me, I've not posted on here before.
I have been with my partner for about 4 years - although we "aren't together" at the moment (his words) despite him living with me and is intending to get a mortgage - which is fine I don't have a problem with this.
My problem is he thinks it's ok to message/flirt/take numbers from other women because we aren't together and "it's ok because I'm in your bed every night so I wouldn't do anything" and "even if I did something you couldn't say anything because we aren't together" also "you are way too jealous".
I have explained my feelings to him and said if he loves me , which he says he does, he wouldn't do these things out of respect - he said its nothing to do with that as we aren't together.
Additionally, he informed me last night he thinks I'm a cold hearted C**T - admittedly I am not perfect and have said things in the past out of anger etc but I don't genuinely think I'm a bad person - I'm only human at the end of the day.
He also said he won't ever be able to leave me because apparently I would make his life hell so he's stuck with me?!
If I'm honest I'm finding it all very upsetting and not sure what to say or do anymore - if I dare argue back with him or get in a huff he says he will move out etc and I have said for him to do that because our toddler behAves better than he does but I think he enjoys me begging him?!
Apologies for the ranty post I just had to get it down!!
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Is this normal?
Tinkywinkysbag · 09/10/2017 08:00
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