6 months in and we have hit our first hurdle.
My husband's friend - our best man - saved a photo of my wedding to his phone and sent it on a group chat which involved my husband. It was a photo of my brother. I saw it and wanted to know why my brothers photo was on his phone. He made excuses but in the end showed it to me. The group of them were calling my brother offensive names and having a right old laugh at his expense.
My brother has never done anything to any of these people. He lives 8 hours away from us. He is kind and we are close. Me and my husband love him alot and the abuse is completely uncalled for.
My husband told them to stop. His text to them read 'lads, not funny that's my brother in law and I'm going to cop it big time now'
I said his message wasn't good enough. I'm hurt and feeling rather distressed that my wedding photos have been used to mock my innocent family member.
My husband decided in amongst all this to go out with them all tonight to celebrate our best mans birthday. I asked him to give this night out a miss because I am so upset with them all (I was supposed to be going too) I asked him to stay with me this once but he went knowing how distraught I am. He also told me he wouldn't bring it up with them again and that I couldn't say anything to them.
I feel really let down. I'm so sad. He has shown them more importance than me all for a few beers.
I've had 2 glasses of wine so I may not have explained this well...
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Shouldn't have got married
MrsXx4 · 07/10/2017 19:05
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