As title and my name say basically.
The other night, I woke up to him watching porn in bed beside me and masturbating to it, obviously. I asked what he was doing, knowing anyway, and he said nothing and turned it off. He then carried on watching something else for a while before I told him to turn it off as I couldnt sleep and he did then tried cuddling me. This made me feel sick from what he had been doing before so I asked him again what was he doing. He said nothing and I said are you going to tell me the truth? He said you know what I was doing, so I told him to stop touching me. He said sorry at this point but I didn't want to touch or look at him. Both spent most of the night awake, me crying at this.
Only reason I was crying is because he hasn't been having sex with me. OK I am on my period currently, but even before then we weren't having sex much. He was leaving the next day too to go back home so I don't see why he couldn't have waited til the next day if he was needing 'release' as he says.
He wants to just forget about it, but I can't. I know he is sorry and is unlikely to do it again, but it's hurtful that he chose that over me. He doesn't see it that way and thinks I am being silly about it.
I dunno what to do. I love him, love his company, love everything, but increasingly it feels like he has no respect for me. This just being one incident where I felt worthless. He says I'm not worthless, that I'm worth more than him, but it hardly looks that way. Think we should break up but I don't want to, he usually makes me happy. What would you do?
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Feeling rejected by partner
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Feelingrejected · 07/10/2017 11:58
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