I've posted on here before about my MIL. We're going to be visiting her during the half-term holiday, on the way back from visiting my DSis and her family, which I am looking forward to as they have moved a long way away.
Originally, we were going to stay in her house for a night, then my DH got this idea in his head that I'd suggested we could stay with her for 2 nights. I never said any such thing, I don't know where he got that idea from.
Now I've said that I actually don't want to stay her house overnight at all, and DH has booked a room at the nearest premier inn; the DDs always like staying in those places so that will work well.
I always feel very claustrophobic in MIL's house, as she's a massive hoarder and loves to spend the time talking to DH about something she's dug out whilst sorting out her things. It's a very difficult place to take the DDs to, but I can cope for a few hours at a time.
But I think the reason why I'm more stressed than previous times is that MIL smacked DD1 with a slipper when she was staying at our house last time and I'm wary of staying with her for any length of time. I know that DD1 can really press people's buttons, but as far as I'm concerned there's no excuse for that ever.
Tbf, my DH agrees on this, and he has promised to tell her it mustn't happen again. We only know what DD1 has told us; MIL left the following day and it hasn't been brought up with her.
AIBU to be wary about spending time with her? There's no doubt the DDs love her so contact with her is positive mostly. I just want to make sure there's no repeat.
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To have told DH that I don't want to stay at MIL's house?
Mittens1969 · 01/10/2017 17:43
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