I never noticed just how loud DH is until DC came along. He couldn't speak quietly during bedtimes, would turn on bright lights after I'd asked him to keep lighting low during night feeds. A Complete novice when it came to creating a calm, quiet atmosphere for both baby and myself.
Fast forward 5 years and its really getting me down. DH has such a loud voice, I find myself trying to get away from him when in the house, he bangs and crashes everything, even shouts when he whispers! Will shout through rooms when I'm on the loo to ask a question etc, will turn on bright lights and leave them on even when he's left the room. I like calm in my house, particularly in the mornings and before bed, but it's proving a contstand stress for me to get DH to just quieten down a bit.
We have talked about having another child, but I'm genuinely concerned about DH'S lack of calm and quiet which will no doubt contribute to any mental health problems I have once baby is born. It drove me to tears last time.
His whole body movements are loud and brash even. When he turns over in bed, he will do it so abruptly and forcefully, I often jump in my sleep and wake in a startle. I think I am very sensitive from a sensory point of view, which I know is not helping.
I love DH, bit this grates on me hugely and is starting to become a big turn off.
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Husband is too loud
earplugsandchocolate · 25/09/2017 18:58
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