I have found this so difficult to watch. Mainly because it is literally SO close to home and so many parallels to my own situation, and also not extreme at all given what I have experienced. I live approx 3 miles from where it was filmed...where my now ex-h lives with OW. So many venues on there were in his financial disclosure, indeed even the OW's business was seen in a shot. I won't go into names co-incidences but my God it's made the hair on my neck stand up more than once. It's been like watching a snapshot of my own life over the past few years, almost word for word. I can say that I haven't sought out teenagers to drink wine with nor drunk a gazillion units of alcohol a day, but I would say to those who haven't experienced a divorce under affair circumstances that I can absolutely relate to Gemma's perceived "madness", that some men are exactly like Simon, that some OW's are so utterly entitled and have such little self awareness that they DO behave like that. This, for me, is a good example of the reality of trying to deal with losing your marriage, life and in this case, children, to two utterly sociopathic, self-centred individuals who cannot even begin to understand the amount of pain and trauma they have caused and indeed, refuse to see it and probably never will. I had to stop watching the first series as it was literally too painful. This series I have coped with better. I do think that the researchers have done their job very well, I also hope that Gemma is not left being portrayed as the bitter, angry ex-wife. I hope this does some justice to those of us who have literally had to pick up our lives and those of our chidren and soldier on.