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Kissing

31 replies

Fulltimeparent · 24/09/2017 09:00

Hi, just wanted to know about kissing been married a long time , DH doesn’t like kissing we’ve haven’t really done it properly when we sort of did wasn’t really nice am I missing out.

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LittleBooInABox · 24/09/2017 09:03

I don't like kissing. It's not something I enjoy, all tongues and face eating. Bleh.

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RedForFilth · 24/09/2017 09:21

I have to be in the mood for it I guess. And I have to be really attracted to the other person.

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Schmoopy · 24/09/2017 13:47

I love kissing. Yes you're missing out!

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TheNaze73 · 24/09/2017 13:48

I think it's as intimate as sex. Love it

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Jojoanna · 24/09/2017 13:49

Never kiss my husband I just don't like it

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TheStoic · 24/09/2017 13:49

I can't imagine sex without kissing, it's almost the best bit.

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user21 · 24/09/2017 18:43

Love it!
DH and I have a snog at least once a day

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NotTheFordType · 24/09/2017 18:45

Great way of swapping germs.

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SpringtimeSun · 24/09/2017 18:46

I couldn't imagine a relationship without kissing. And no bigger turn-off than a man who can't or won't kiss passionately.

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FluffyNinja · 24/09/2017 19:04

No, I'm not keen on kissing DH. He's a rubbish kisser and his teeth are awful, but he's a lovely bloke so it's not a deal breaker for me.

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sunsetheaven · 24/09/2017 19:09

I love a good ol snog!

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ConorMcGregorsChin · 24/09/2017 19:15

Agree with Naze I bloody love it. Kissing is amazing and definitely one of the most intimate and passionate things you can do with another person! I couldn't / can't live without it!

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haribomilkshake · 24/09/2017 19:26

Have a look on the "sex" topic - interesting discussion there

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StewPots · 24/09/2017 19:29

My ex was a full on snogger, grossed me out to be honest so tried to avoid kissing him plus his bad breath from poor dental hygiene and excessive drinking was also a put off!

My DH however is a light kisser, which sort of annoys me too because it's like there's no passion! Even though he grabs hold of me etc so it's not like he's not attracted to me! I need to keep schooling him I think so I can find a middle ground somewhere!

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BeatriceBeaudelaire · 24/09/2017 20:26

Ngl I'm attached to my DPs mouth half the time he's home. I love kissing, I find it intimate but less intense than sex and it can be silly and playful as well as more 'steamy'.
I think if your partners not a great kisser maybe you need to let him practice more Grin although if you are both happy not to bother then continue onwards x

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Redglitter · 24/09/2017 20:28

Oh I LOVE kissing especially during sex

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Brahms3rdracket · 24/09/2017 20:29

How does sex work without kissing?

Kissing the person you love is lovely, you're missing out.

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Mrsfluff · 24/09/2017 20:29

I love a good snogging session! It makes me feel connected to my partner. Kissing, to me, is an important part of our intimate relationship.

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donajimena · 24/09/2017 20:29

Its not something I do very often with my OH but when it does happen its very nice! Obviously we peck on cheeks, lips etc but as for full on passionate kissing its all about the mood

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ElmerFudge · 24/09/2017 20:32

Some mouths just don't go together. My DH was a good kissing match for me!

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daydreamnation · 24/09/2017 20:39

I have a theory that if you're not compatible kissing, sex will be rubbish. I've not had tons of partners but the only two who I loved kissing, were the two who were/are great in the sack Wink
Dh thankfully is one of them, we don't kiss enough but when we do I still get a little flutter in my tummy and go weak at the knees at the memory of our first kiss!!

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Lovemusic33 · 24/09/2017 20:41

I love kissing, it's a big turn on, I don't think I could be with someone who doesn't like it.

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Babyblues14 · 24/09/2017 20:44

Love it, we don't leave for work without kissing each other goodbye

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AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 24/09/2017 20:46

I don't like kissing. I don't object to a peck on the lips (or even a lingering kiss on the lips) but I hate French kissing. It's unhygienic and I don't find it sexy, never have. No reflection on my DH.

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jeaux90 · 24/09/2017 20:46

How do you start sex without kissing? It's the big turn on for me, love it.

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