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Such a mess

(5 Posts)
wowsaidtheowl Sun 24-Sep-17 01:45:01

I married my childhood sweetheart and it turn out that I did that because I was insecure and didn't think I was worth more. He's a man child. He has never supported himself, never prioritised his family and now I'm sitting in a bus stop all alone and no idea what to do. Fuck.

Cakedoesntjudge Sun 24-Sep-17 01:53:20

Sorry to hear you're going through this, hopefully someone will be along soon who knows more about the next steps you can take in this situation.

Do you have some place safe to be tonight? flowers

Aquamarine1029 Sun 24-Sep-17 02:10:59

You leave him and start over. You'll be so glad you did.

beesandknees Sun 24-Sep-17 02:11:46

I did the same op. Left him in the end.

Do you want to talk about what happened today.

Do you have somewhere to go?

wowsaidtheowl Sun 24-Sep-17 11:53:25

I walked until 4am. Came home. Argued some more and now I just have to get on with things because the kids can't live in an atmosphere.

My issue today was with him slagging off his friend because he keeps cancelling on him because friend is priorising his wife and family. He doesn't realise how great his friend is. Probably a silly argument to have but it got big.

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