Has anyone's OH's left the military and then chosen to rejoin?
That's exactly what DP wants to do but it would mean him moving to the other end of the county and realistically we couldn't afford for me and the baby to go and to be honest I don't want to leave my job/family here.
He left the military to settle down and have a family, he got that and has now come to the conclusion that he misses his old job (and the lads from the job) He would try and get back every weekend but it effectively leaves me with all the responsibility of our 10 month old!
As not to drop feed our relationship was fantastic until we found out I was pregnant (planned) and he kind of lost it and he's not been the same since! Unsupportive throughout pregnancy and early baby times but he has some health issues of his own which cause him pain every day (he would still be able to rejoin with these and he thinks it would help his pain). Things seem to be getting back on track with our relationship but now this bombshell has just been dropped and I feel like I've already put up with so much to keep our family going and now this!
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DP wants to leave to rejoin the military
applepancake · 23/09/2017 12:57
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