I found out by mistake, a text msg on DH's work phone from this woman - I'll call her B. B is DH's friend sister. DH's friend died years ago. However, B has kept in contact with my DH dispite the fact that I have made it very clear to both my DH and B to stop communicating because there is really no need to because DH's friend is no more. Throughout my marriage life I have been coming across many text msgs and calls on DH's phone (always work phone not his personal phone) from B which suggested that there was some kind of relationship still going on. This has caused a lot problems in my marriage for as long as I can remember. B is also married with kids by the way?
When I confronted DH about the many texts and calls he had been having with B at the time he denied having an affair with B and promised he would stop all contact with B and have nothing to do with her. For a while I didn't see anything to suggest otherwise until recently when I saw a text on DH's phone from B greeting my DH. This message showed on DH's phone when DH asked me to put his phone on the charger (I didn't go Iooking for it) I recognised the number straight away. My first reaction was to ask DH but I was not in the right frame of mind to confront him at the time,so I took a snapshot of the text messge instead until am ready to confront him.
DH knows how I feel about B. In the past I took the matter head-on which wasn't always the best way forward. Not knowing whether or not my DH responded to B's text message is doing my head in. What would be the best way to tackling this issue without too much drama?:-(
DH is otherwise a fun, loving, caring and wonderful person.
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Marygoround17 · 22/09/2017 14:09
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