My relationship has ended in my head iv kind of moved on but I just can't sit my DH down & say it straight "I think you should move out" I'm just so bloody wishy washy!!!
We've been together 17yrs got 3kids 3,5,7 i can cope alone as I do everything anyway.
I'm scared....DH will never leave as he is happy to bungle through burying his head in the sand (& his phone)
I'm scared....what if he leaves & he's miserable & begins to hate me & I can never relax
I'm scared....of the change
I'm scared....of waking up one day when I'm old and knowing iv wasted my time being miserable with him...not to mention the guilt for the kids
I really need to grow some bollocks iv got every scenario of what life might be like for both of us single playing round in my mind I just can't see the wood for the trees!!!!
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Why am I so scared to end it!!
Gordonbennit · 18/09/2017 21:45
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