Long story short OH and I work together and have been together for 5 years and now live together.
There is a girl in my work who for some reason really hates me. She is a very strange character, young and ditsy but very, very attractive. I know it's not me, as I spend a lot of time with the girls I work with socially and we are all really good friends (I am even bridesmaid for one of them). This one girl doesn't get involved with the social group, keeps herself to herself when it comes to females, however is the biggest office flirt. She's actually very smart but puts on a stupid act in front of the men and gets a lot of attention because of her looks. For one reason or another, she really doesn't like me (I think the main reason is we were both up for the same promotion and I got it) but makes it very well known and on a few occasions has greatly upset me with unfair and downright rude comments and actions and has repeatedly been very aggressive with me in her responses when I so dare as to ask her a work related question or ask her to do something (I am now her supervisor). I've been nice from the offset and continue to do so which I have stuck by as I try to maintain professionalism in my work and find it all a bit childish.
Tonight my OH asked me whilst driving if I could text his mum for him. I clicked on his iMessage and the first message that came up as he was clicked in the conversation is someone we also work with. Conversation goes like this... Friend: "X is looking amazing today." To which my OH replied "Cor. Outrageous!!"
I'm hurt about the fact that he would message someone else we work with about this girl when he knows how much she has upset me previously and has always been on my side, especially with forming his own comments about her actions and saying she is being grossly unfair, etc.
Should I bring it up and say I saw it when he asked me to go on his phone and it's upset me or am I being ridiculous petty?
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OH thinking female I hate is fit...
Sofi567b · 24/08/2017 00:42
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