Hi everyone!
So recently I've been having some doubts about the relationship I'm in, and I'm wondering whether I have grounds to end it, or see if I can stick it out and try and iron out the creases :(
I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now (not long I know) but I've just gotten to the point where I'm not sure if it's worth the hassle anymore. He's never been a very talkative guy but recently this is starting to really get on my nerves. I am always the one to text him first and he never makes the effort to even send me a text to ask how my day is going!! It's always me having to ask him how his day is going and what he's up to. He's also one for ignoring my texts outright and leaving them on "read", which I've told him in the past bugs me, but he doesn't seem to care, he still does it!
He's also not very good with helping me with some struggles I've been having (I have some mental health problems) but whenever I ask him to be more empathetic with me about this, he just brushes it off and calls my moods "annoying" instead because he says he "doesn't know what to say to me" to not start an argument.
Also, he still hasn't told his parents that we're dating and he never makes the effort to come up and see me (we live about 2 hours away from eachother by car). He says he's too scared to meet my parents and won't tell his parents about me because he doesn't want them "interrogating him"!
At the moment I just really feel like I'm putting in all the effort and I'm not getting anything back, whenever I bring up problems we're having he wants to iron them out but never shows me any support or improvement in anything. I feel like the only way I can get him to want me and fight for me is by giving him an ultimatum but I don't know any other way to make him understand that I'm hurt.
Please let me know your thoughts and don't be afraid to speak your minds, I'd really like some honest opinions! Thanks :)
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Should I bin my boyfriend?
wanderlust56 · 23/08/2017 23:25
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