I've been with my partner approx 6 months. It's been rather intense and I've come to know a lot about her personally. We have a very open relationship and talk about things freely.
However, it has become apparent that my partner is suffering from depression. My partner seems to think that she isn't worthy of anyone's love and kindness, her work is never good enough (she is a workaholic as a result), she is very self conscious over her image (resulting in careful eating), she has trouble sleeping and functioning on a daily basis and lastly she is very open with the fact that she has suicidal thoughts but admits she won't act on them. She is undergoing therapy online.
I'm having a hard time listening to her complaining day in day out, it's hard for me to listen and I can't really do anything to help. Plus, I find her talking about suicide makes me uncomfortable. We openly talk about our future and I worry that if I get too involved I will be caught up in her issues and that it may be a difficult future.
Can anyone offer any advice or support? I am in very deep but I'm also very weary.
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My partner has depression
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Rambler17 · 21/08/2017 23:55
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