I've been with my dh for almost thirty years. The marriage has been rocky for sometime, but it seems to have suddenly got a lot worse.
He now barely speaks to me, and has moved into the spare room (without a word to me). I am also fed up with the relationship (he is controlling, inflexible, moody and anti-social), but - and I know this sounds ridiculous - now the end is approaching I'm finding it very difficult to actually say the words "it's over!"
He hasn't said anything to me about ending the relationship, and somehow I don't think he will. I think he'll carry on being a bad tempered git but not actually have the courage to speak to me about it.
Can anyone help me to think of the right words to say to him, in order to end the relationship in a dignified and - if possible - pleasant way? I feel stupidly frozen with fear of the unknown, and the phrase "out of the frying pan and out of the fire" is going round and round in my head! (I work but with on low salary and will not have a good pension - part of my worry is financial. We also have 2 dds, early twenties but still living at home at the moment).
Help!
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Heading - at speed - towards the end of a 30 year relationship.
Cambionome · 20/08/2017 22:15
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