Hi everyone
I am looking for a bit of input from people on the outside.
Basically I moved from Scotland away from all family and friends to be with my DS father while I was pregnant.
We had been friends 6 years before being a couple and the pregnancy was pretty quick now we have been together 2years and DS is now 15months.
So I moved so my partner and his family could be apart of my son's life.
Me and my partner moved to Manchester (he lived in Warrington near his family) as this was where we decided we were moving too.
Ever since we did his family have had an issue with it, saying it's too far away.
Anyway DS was born and my partners father and wife showed face every so often but as time went on it became less and less. Within months...
Partners sister's have rarely visited well one has only been once or twice and 1 sister has never even been to our house not even when DS was born (although at the time she was pregnant) so I gave that a pass. But now she's had the baby and he is now 1years old and still she hasn't been.
So am I missing something as all I seem to get is excuses of you live to far away ( and I think are you kidding I moved from. Scotland 4hours away to be here)
We live 34/40mins one way. So just over an hour max for an all round journey. So why can't they do this once every so often to see their grandchild/nephew .
I feel like my son is missing out here. As I see them post pictures of the 2 other grandchildren (sister in law's 2 children)
This makes me sad as at the start we would visit them every other weekend and do rounds of the family.
It's like they want everything on their doorstep and just don't make effort.
I really don't get it.
I have my dad in London coming up to visit to see DS and my mum coming down from Scotland to see my DS . So why can't my partner's family travel 1hour to see him.
I find it really unfair.
I have also told them on a number of occasions. Let me know if you would like DS to stay over or if you want to take him out. Just contact me and we can make arrangements and they never do.
I find it really odd and I really don't know what to do.
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Partner's side of family never see my son
DollFace13 · 20/08/2017 01:59
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