Have just started divorce process after finding out that DH was on Tinder. Was visiting at my brother's this evening and SIL was asking probing questions about divorce & giving "sage" advice saying things like "Well you were both brave enough to separate and that's given him space to decide what he wanted" (?) I said "I didn't have a choice, he was on Tinder" to which she replied "Well, you have to ask yourself, why did he do it in the first place" !!
AIBU, or was that a mean thing to say? I did tell her that there is no acceptable reason for him to have been on Tinder. Left crying because I was too upset to carry on with the evening, but not sure if I was being an oversensitive nutter.
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sunshiney78 · 19/08/2017 20:19
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