My partner broke up with me just over 2 weeks ago completely out of the blue and can't give me a reason why. We were together for 18 months and got on amazingly, genuinely never had an argument. We were getting on fine before this happened and had just come back from spending 4 days at his parents (who I had never met) and his children (who I had only ever spent a couple of hours with).He came round and I asked if he was ok, his response was "not really" and when I asked him what was wrong he said "everything". I jokingly said "what even us" and laughed and he turned around and said "maybe yeah". I asked him if he wanted to be with me and he said he didn't think so. We went back to his and I text him and asked what had happened to make him feel like that and he just said he "didn't know why, just didn't think he loved me like I deserved". He saw my mum 2 days later and he said he genuinely couldn't give a reason he just didn't think he could be the person I wanted him to be. I've asked if we could meet for a chat because I have so much going through my head and he said he doesn't think it's a good idea because he honestly cant give me a reason and he doesn't think it's fair. Am I being unreasonable for wanting some sort of reason why someones feelings can change from wanting to spend the rest of his life with me (which he had only said a few weeks before we split) to not wanting to be with me anymore???
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Am I being unreasonable wanting a reason why???
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Sogo1 · 18/08/2017 12:12
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