Just after other people experience although I know the answer really.
My parents had a very co operative relationship when I was a child my
Mum would make him a drink and they would chat etc
It is early days for me and my ex. Right now I don't want to lay eyes on him. He is shocked that I have declined his offer to sit with the children whilst I go out over the weekend.
I think it is confusing for them. We are going to tell them he isn't going to live here anymore. So him coming a long feet up and drink in hand for the evening would send mixed messages.
I know moving forward it is the right thing for the kids that we can be civil and show them a good adult working relationship but right now I just want him to stay away
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eve34 · 17/08/2017 06:37
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