Hi everyone.
I'm a 28 yr old woman who found out several months ago that my mother was having an affair. I was 35 weeks pregnant at the time and really couldn't deal with the affair so I pushed it to the back of my mind and tried to forget about it.
How I found out was completely by accident, my mum was showing me a picture on her phone that had been sent in a text message, she handed me her phone to look at it and I accidentally clicked "back" and it went to the main message inbox. I seen an extremely explicit message and clicked on, couldn't believe what I was reading as my mum is so conservative.
However as I said I pushed it back and tried to forget. Told my husband as it was driving me mad! Baby is now 3 months old and on a recent holiday I found out that the affair is ongoing, I was in my mums room drying my hair and again, further explicit messages came up on her phone - the identity of the man was revealed, and I found that it was her best friends husband, who my dad is very close with.
Part of me thinks to do nothing as it's my parents life, none of my business. Which I do agree with, I just find the whole thing so outrageous.
I have one sibling who I am very close with, she would be devastated to find this out. Only me and my husband know.
Any advice?
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Mum having an affair - don't know what to do
user1500500870 · 06/08/2017 12:23
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