I always do this! Then when I do actually go ahead and turn up to a date, I never make it past date 2, maybe 3. Im a size 16 and have absolutely no body confidence. Im ok from the head up! Im not saying there is anything wrong with a size 16. Im all for supporting women to love themselves whatever their size and always preaching within my job not to judge yourself, be kind to yourself, but I cant quite support myself, and dont know why!
We have been texting a couple of weeks. In that time I have tried to prep myself and now the day before I am thinking of all excuses possible! All I keep thinking is he will be disappointed. He has seen some pics, but not many and they are basically shoulders upwards. I did throw in a text, saying 'Im no skinny minnie mind', and he didnt reply to that.
I wish I could just think. Right, if he isnt interested, so be it! Im not sure I can take any more knocks. I question if Im ready to date but its been 6 years. So, will I ever be ready!
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Arranged a date, 2 weeks ago...its tomorrow! Im not sure if I should cancel :(
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