Just that really
Every "romantic" relationship I've had has been unhealthy, including my marriage which ended last year.
I've contemplated the past a lot and for some reason I accepted less than I should have. Each one started where I appeared to be on a pedestal, could do no wrong, was wonderful, then ended with abuse, lies, cheating and just being degraded.
What's it like being with someone who you don't feel suspicious of 24/7, and who doesnt make you feel insecure? Someone who doesn't talk down to you in front of people? And do all men pester you for sex and make you feel badly for not wanting it sometimes I only did it with my H because I was afraid he would cheat on me if I didnt. He cheated anyway...
I feel ready to meet someone else now but I just cant imagine what a nice man is like
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What's it like being in a non-abusive relationship?
Teepish · 26/07/2017 16:02
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