I don't even know where to start really, I'm not one for using these sites and it's actually the first time I've been on. But I'm hoping for some impartial advise.
I've been weigh my partner for 2 years as of last week, we got engaged at xmas and we are getting married next year...
After working away this weekend I've come home and he's drunk a whole bottle of vodka, absolutely wasted. It was actually quite amusing to start with, I put him to bed and I settled down to catch up on the TV.
I heard him talking to someone upstairs, so I listened at the bottom and it sounded like he was having an argument with a family member on the phone, I left him to it and then went up when was all quiet... his phone was on the side so I clicked it to see the time - he hasn't been on the phone as there were messages on the front screen.. so he had been arguing with himself.
Anyway, I will get to the point, he ended up with a red mist descending across him and him flopping out. Screaming and shouting at me about my job, and that I had been away on a trip and I took the piss. The next thing I knew he slapped me hard across the top of my arm a couple of times. I was so shocked I literally sunk to the floor. He then kicked me and slapped me around the head. As soon as I could I got out the house and hid around the corner, he then left the house and I locked myself in. He had also taken my phone with him, Obviously I was in a state.
He didn't come back, thankfully, and went to his dads (I found this out the next day) after logging in on my iPad and locating my phone. I collected it off his dad and went home, I packed all his belongings and he collected them whilst I was out. We have had contact, and I have met him at the local park where we spoke for a little while. I asked him to see his GP which he has and ring domestic violence line.
I just do not know what to do, he's complete shocked me. Do I run now, do I support him and getting help - what do I do?
I can't sleep or eat, my minds in overdrive! I haven't spoken to anyone but his mum about this ( she lives abroad) she's disgusted and has told him so, she escaped his fathers abuse years ago - now she is panicking that he is turning into his father. I can't confide in anyone and tbh I don't want to speak about it out loud.
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I was attacked by my fiancé
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