Hi everyone,
Dating related question. In the past I've always dated guys where there's been loads of chemistry, sexual tension, it's been exciting but full of drama and ups and downs. Things moved very quickly and ended in disaster.
I now have a young daughter and ready to start dating again. This time I'm approaching things VERY differently. I've learnt from my mistakes and know the type of qualities I'm looking for in a man. Very different to the past men I dated who were free spirited, selfish twats.
I've been on a few dates with guys I met and nothing was there on my side. I recently started internet dating and met a guy who I did feel a connection with on the first date. I was quite excited about it to be honest. But his messaging in between dates was sooo boring and serious, not much humour or flirting. We agreed to meet again recently for dinner and it was ok, not as great as the first date but I sensed he was maybe a. It nervous. I get the feeling he quite likes me and is maybe holding back, he just comes across as very serious and it's putting me off hugely. I can't tell if this is him or just he needs to come out of his shell.
He seems respectful and gentlemanly which is what I want. We've not even kissed yet 😬
I've heard that sometimes people end up together but the initial spark wasn't there and that gradually they fell in love? I can't tell if this is the case here or I'm just basically not into him. The first date I would have liked to kiss him but the second date I felt like running.
We are still in contact now but I'm so unsure about how I feel. A part of me would like someone like him but I just don't know if we are compatible or if I'm massively attracted to him.
Any advice?! x
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Cherryblossom200 · 24/07/2017 20:57
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