I don't know where to start really.. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years and during that time I have struggled to cope with him. He is ALWAYS right and never compromises, I don't really have any say in the relationship, he likes order and routine and it all to be at his schedule.
He is emotionless and struggles to cope seeing my emotions he just walks out and leaves for anywhere from an hour to a few days.
He shows no emotion in terms of how he feels about me and most of the time he gives a really good impression of being bored or rather he can't be arsed with puttin any effort in.
He doesn't talk to me, he ignores me a lot of the time when he does talk to me it's hard to find something that will engage him in conversation like I said he just seems like he can't be arsed.
All he says is negative comments to me all the time or being patronising or mimicking things I have said. It really hurts me, I don't know what to do. Yesterday I told him I was feeling a bit low and suggested we go to cinema when I got home from work. He wanted to but when I got home he seemed in a bad mood and was mimicking things I said and nit picking about other things as usual. I told him to stop but he would and carried on in car when we got to cinema I couldny speak to him I was so upset and only We collected our tickets but then he walked out saying there was a bad atmosphere. I was upset I was already feeling down then all this, he then drove away from house for a few hours and I got even more upsecbuMy mum was emotionally bullied by my dad all her life... I just feel same thing is happening to me. I have no where to go, no control over it.. I feel so alone I hate my life, im so trapped. We have been through a lot together which is the thing that keeps us together we don't have any kids but we have tried in 37 now but in the relationship I've had a couple of miscarriages, my dad passed away whilst we have been together, I've had cancer treatment and we had a bad break in at our home and lost a lot of irreplaceable things.. we have had some amazing things as well, we have been able to travel the world together and I've been able to do a lot for my mum since my dad died which andy said supported me with. But the arguments and walking out without ever resolving anything is too much for me, I never feel we understand each other and at times feel very alone in a packed room. I don't know what to do.
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Yorkshirelass2016 · 22/07/2017 01:14
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